The Becoming Phase: How to Start Living the Truth of Who You Are Now
There comes a time after you've done a lot of deep inner work, healing, reflection, getting clear on who you are now, that you start asking a different kind of question:
How do I actually live as this person I'm becoming?
Not just in the quiet moments when you're praying, journaling, or meditating.
But in your daily life.
In your conversations.
In your relationships.
In the choices you make when life gets messy or uncomfortable.
✨That’s what The Becoming Phase is about ✨
The Becoming Phase is embodying the version of yourself that has emerged through your healing and transformation. It's when you start showing up as your truest self…even when it still feels new or a little shaky.
Not just in the quiet moments of journaling, meditation or prayer, but in your real, messy, colorful life:
In how you speak up (instead of staying quiet)
In the boundaries you set
In the pauses you take before saying yes to something that drains you
In the brave decisions you make, even when they stretch you
These aren't grand gestures. They're daily practices. Micro-moments of integrity where you choose yourself over old patterns.
BECOMING isn't about being "perfect" or reaching your "best self." It's about honoring who you have become (sometimes through hell and back) by living it. By being it. It’s the moment you start showing with more truth, more alignment, more intention and more courage!
🎥 Watch: Who Are You Becoming? Living the Becoming Phase
If you're feeling that tension between the old and the new, between who you've been and who you're becoming—this video is for you!
In this week’s video, we’ll explore:
What The Becoming Phase really is, and how to recognize when you’re in it
What this phase needs and asks from you energetically, emotionally, and spiritually
3 powerful tools to help you live in alignment with your future self
Whether you’re coming out of a season of reflection, loss, or deep change… this phase is about being the version of you that’s here now!
Next in the series:
Next week, I'll be sharing the final video in the Destiny Map series: The Rebuilding Phase — where becoming meets doing.
We'll talk about structure, systems, habits, and momentum, so you can start putting all of this inner work into aligned outer action!
Until then... keep choosing yourself. One decision at a time.
That's how becoming happens.
Not sure what phase you're in?
✨ Take the Destiny Map Quiz
It’s a soulful starting point to help you name where you are and what kind of support you might need right now. Want to go deeper?
📺 Watch the full Destiny Map video series on YouTube — I walk through each phase with stories, examples and coaching tools.
