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THE GRIEF NO ONE SEES

Holiday grief often shows up in the moments no one sees. A song, a memory, or a small routine can catch you off guard and pull you right back. This post names those hidden waves of grief and offers gentle support for what they stir up during this season.

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When Grief Takes a Seat

The holidays have a way of making grief feel louder. The empty chair, the memories, the pressure to be “okay” — it all hits differently when someone you love is missing. This post explores how grief shows up at the holiday table, why that presence matters, and how to honor both your heart and your person in a season that can feel complicated!

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Why Happiness Can Hurt When You're Grieving

Why does happiness feel wrong when you’re grieving? In this post, I talk about the guilt that can rise when joy shows up after loss, why it can feel like betrayal, and how to make sense of the emotional mix of grief and happiness without judging yourself.

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Grief and Maybe Gratitude

The holidays can feel especially heavy when you're grieving. While everyone’s focused on ‘gratitude’, you might just be trying to get through the day. In this post, I share a real and honest perspective on why you don’t have to force yourself to be thankful and how to give your heart a little more room to breathe.

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The Rebuilding Phase: When You’re Ready to Begin Again

After loss, change, or deep reflection, there comes a moment when you feel ready to begin again. The Rebuilding Phase is where soul meets structure, where you take everything you’ve learned and start laying the foundation for what’s next.

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THE DISRUPTION PHASE: When life falls apart

When life falls apart — now what?
This post explores the Disruption Phase: the first (and often hardest) stage of The Destiny Map. If you’re navigating loss, change, or everything suddenly not making sense... this is for you.

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