Why Following your heart feels impossible after loss

“Follow your heart.”

We’ve all heard it.

But after loss…or heartbreak really… it just doesn’t land the same way.

Because what do you do when your heart is the very thing that feels broken?

I remember after my brother passed away, someone asked me,

“What does your heart want?”

And I just sat there thinking…

I don’t know. Because it doesn’t feel like it’s working anymore. It’s broken.

That’s what makes it so confusing.

It’s not that you don’t want clarity…It’s that the part of you that used to guide you…your heart… feels… shattered. 

So the idea of following it?

Feels impossible!

But over time, I started to realize something.

My heart didn’t stop guiding me…I just had to learn how to listen to it differently.

The broken pieces became my direction. 

If you’re in that space where nothing feels clear…

Watch my latest video where I talk more about how you can let your BROKEN heart lead the way!

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If You Want to Go Deeper

I walk through it more in the video above.

And if you’re in a place where you’re not even sure where you are right now… or what you need next… I created something to help with that.

Take the FREE The Destiny Map Quiz + video guide here.

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