The Reflection Phase: When Life No Longer Feels the Same
I’m flying home to L.A. as I write this.
Back to a life that will likely look the same….
but doesn’t feel the same.
These past few months… turning 50, moving through grief, supporting my friend through unimaginable loss, and deepening my work in ways I didn’t expect…
Something in me has shifted.
I’m not who I was.
But I’m not totally clear on who I’m becoming either.
Or what’s next.
This is exactly what this phase is about.
This Is the Reflection Phase
It’s the next phase in The Destiny Map — and a very important one!
It’s that space where nothing feels quite right.
You’re asking deeper questions, but don’t have answers.
It can feel like:
Reassessing
Rearranging
Remembering
Retreating
Rediscovery
And it might feel like not much is happening...but this phase can actually be a sacred turning point.
It’s where realignment happens….inside and out!
🎥 Watch: The Reflection Phase – Feeling Lost? Here’s Why:
In this week’s video, I’m walking through:
✨ What The Reflection Phase actually is (and how to know you’re in it)
✨ What it’s asking from you and why we often try to skip it
✨ A few soulful tools to support you if you’re in this space too
It’s where you start to see what no longer fits…
Even if you’re not yet clear on what comes next.
If you’re here now, in this phase, I hope you give yourself permission to:
Slow down
Question things
Not know
Feel the shift without trying to solve it yet
This is the part where the real change begins, before anything around you actually changes.
Next week, I’ll be sharing The Radiance Phase…. the part of the journey when clarity starts to return, and a new version of you begins to emerge.
But for now?
Give yourself permission to slow down.
To question.
To reevaluate.
To inquire.
To reflect.
You don’t need to rush clarity.
You don’t have to figure it all out.
You just have to LIVE the questions.
Sit with the not-knowing.
Let it shape you, instead of rushing to shape it.
Want to Explore Where You Are?
Or curious about what phase you might be in …you can take The Destiny Map Quiz here and if you haven’t seen it yet, you can also watch the Intro Video that walks through all five phases.
