The Destiny Map: 5 Phases of Transformation

One of the things I hear most often… and have felt myself, is the fear that feeling lost, stuck, or unsure is going to last forever.

Especially during times of loss, transition, or big life change… it can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you, and there’s no clear path forward.

But just like we move through external seasons, I believe we also move through soul seasons, the inner ones.

Sometimes they show up in order.
Sometimes they hit all at once.
Sometimes you’re rebuilding in one area while falling apart in another.

It’s messy.
And sometimes there’s even excitement woven in, the sense that you want to move forward, make things happen… but something still feels off, paused, or not quite ready yet.

I’ve been there many, many times.
And it’s exactly why I created something called The Destiny Map.

🎥 Watch: The Destiny Map Intro Video

This is the very first video on my new YouTube channel and it’s the starting point for everything that’s coming next.

In this video, I introduce you to the 5 soul phases we all move through in life, especially during times of deep change, grief or personal transformation.

The 5 Phases of The Destiny Map

✨ Disruption – loss, change, grief, upheaval
✨ Reflection – soul-searching, remembering, rediscovering
✨ Radiance – self-expression, creativity, visibility
✨ Becoming – alignment, embodiment, empowerment
✨ Rebuilding – integration, grounded action, structure

These phases are not just concepts… they’re invitations.

Sometimes they arrive gently.
Sometimes they show up uninvited, flipping your life upside down.

But each one holds wisdom.
Each one offers a chance to listen more deeply to your inner knowing and move forward from a place of care, truth and alignment!

Want to Explore More Deeply?

I created a free quiz to help you explore where you might be in The Destiny Map right now — and what that phase might be asking of you.

👉 Take the Quiz + Explore the Destiny Map Here

What’s Next

This is the first in a full YouTube series!
Each week, I’ll release a new video diving deeper into one of the five phases — starting next with Disruption.

So if you're in the midst of something, or feeling a shift starting to stir in you... I hope this series helps you feel a little more seen, and a little less alone.

And if you take the quiz or watch the video…I’d truly love to hear what comes up for you!